Write the Sentence First

Here is an exercise that sounds strange but works. Write down what you hope your family will say about you when you’re gone. Not something vague, like being a good dad. Be specific. A husband who made his wife feel cherished. A father who was there, who prayed with his kids and taught them to follow Christ.

Then read it in the morning, and ask one question: what do I need to be today to make that true?

Paul could write his own sentence near the end of his life: “I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith.” He didn’t get there by accident. He got there one faithful day at a time.

Solomon says, “A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches.” A good name is chosen, day by day, in ordinary moments. Write the sentence. Then live today like you mean it.